• Everyone’s Talking About Menopause, But Where’s the Help?

    I’ve written what feels like 7,000 drafts of blog posts over the last few weeks, and honestly, they all read like they were written by 7,000 different people. That’s what this rollercoaster of hormones does—it makes me feel like a different person every single day. Right now, in this moment,…

  • 8 Years, 1 Blog, and a Lot of Life in Between

    Today is the 8th Birthday of my little blog! Can you believe it?! So much has happened since I started writing this back in 2017! I got married, changed jobs, got the Tobes, and started a business.  This started as a hobby, something to do on my commute, but honestly,…

  • 2025: Let’s Stop Just Existing and Start Living

    Happy New Year! 🥳 2025 is here, and if the social media posts were anything to go by, most people are glad to see the back of 2024, myself included. It’s funny because we all know we are the same people dealing with the same problems. Our troubles don’t vanish…

  • 2024: It Wasn’t Pretty, But We Got There

    It’s been way too long since I’ve posted a blog! I’ve written so many but never taken the time to publish them for one reason or another.  So, I thought I’d squeeze in one last 2024 blog post and not break the tradition of sharing my end-of-year reflection. I thought…

  • How I Edited the “Me” Out of This Is Still Me

    Last Sunday, I was bored.  I’d had a busy week and was really looking forward to having an entire weekend with the husband. We haven’t had a weekend of no plans since before our holiday in July. We were going to pop out to a few places, nothing too exciting,…

  • Will Doing Less Actually Give Me More? I’m Ready to Find Out

    Hello Lovelies, Some weeks, I struggle for topics to write about, and sometimes a giant ball of inspiration strikes me out of nowhere. This week, it was definitely the latter. I’ve mentioned before that I’ve been part of Respin, and this week marked our final coaching session as BETA testers.…

  • How One Email Redefined My Perspective on Self-Worth

    Hello lovelies, Last week, I read something in Amanda Goetz’s Life’s a Game weekly newsletter that really struck me. It’s no secret to my regular readers that I suffer from low self-esteem and self-doubt. Since starting HRT, things have improved, but I’m still working through it with my therapist. When…